For the Record.
I just want to make a public service announcement here!
When someone looses a loved one, child, parent ect.. DO NOT say to them, call me if you need me. Call them, check in on them. make them talk to you if only for a minute. They will feel better and need to know you care. A grieving person finds it excessively difficult to reach out for help, they don’t want to lay their sadness on others and don’t know if it’s a good time for you to talk, they WONT call if they need you, but they do need you. Please call them, it really does make a difference.
Thank you, off my soapbox now. This was just an observation made recently.