They just don’t understand…

Sad again. I just wish Dave would WANT to be home with us, ya know.
Day 2 still in my pj’s at 3pm. Waiting for him get home from work, excited he said he would be early today. Cause I like the company, or want to, but when he is in a grump I regret it and think things are more peaceful here alone.
Anyways, he just called to say she is done work, but gonna stop in at our friends for a visit so won’t be home til dinner time. I said he should come get me so the baby and I can go visiting as well..but it’s out of the way (true-to be fair) and the only reason he was stopping in is that it’s on his way. 

I want to be part of society, I want to get out and interact more..So now I am crying cause my hubby won’t be home early and I have no reason to get dressed again today. He said I should go for a walk, it’s not the same, walking alone…

I guess I am just saying I am lonely..I am a people person and used to being busy..

I feel so lonely sometimes, desperate for company.

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“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.” — Albert Einstein. When it feels like your world has been shattered, and you have reached rock bottom, you must make a choice: Stay where you are and fade away, or keep moving forward. Thankfully I chose to move forward and was blessed with the two most wonderful children after the death of my first in early labor. Things are looking up.

Posted on June 14, 2010, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. 10 Comments.

  1. oh and did I mention he’ll call me at 4pm to ‘ask’ to go out to a baseball game or dinner or beers with his coworkers/friends? irritating!!!

  2. oh and did I mention he’ll call me at 4pm to ‘ask’ to go out to a baseball game or dinner or beers with his coworkers/friends? irritating!!!

  3. I’m going through the exact same thing right now. Dh works long hours, volunteers even when no one else can be found to be there when certain people need to do work and even when he’s home, he’s absent.

    But it gets better. Most men just don’t know what to do with babies. So I let him do his thing and he lets me do mine. I often take the kids out (both, mind you by myself) and let him stay home if he wants. It’s just easier. He has less patience. It gets easier when they get older though. And when I want to go out (I’ve been out 4 times!!!), I go out after the kids are down for the night (usually between 7 and 8).

    Perfectly normal. Try not to take it too personally. Guys just don’t get it. Babies are stressful for them. Try to keep busy and do your own thing with or without him. You can do it mama!

  4. I’m going through the exact same thing right now. Dh works long hours, volunteers even when no one else can be found to be there when certain people need to do work and even when he’s home, he’s absent.
    But it gets better. Most men just don’t know what to do with babies. So I let him do his thing and he lets me do mine. I often take the kids out (both, mind you by myself) and let him stay home if he wants. It’s just easier. He has less patience. It gets easier when they get older though. And when I want to go out (I’ve been out 4 times!!!), I go out after the kids are down for the night (usually between 7 and 8).
    Perfectly normal. Try not to take it too personally. Guys just don’t get it. Babies are stressful for them. Try to keep busy and do your own thing with or without him. You can do it mama!

  5. I know this feeling too. It will get easier hun. Is there any play group type things around you that you can get into? Or just social groups for moms or something?

  6. I know this feeling too. It will get easier hun. Is there any play group type things around you that you can get into? Or just social groups for moms or something?

  7. Wish I could take you out and we could go for walks together with babygirl. *big hugs* It won’t be like this forever, but I know it’s very tough.

  8. Wish I could take you out and we could go for walks together with babygirl. *big hugs* It won’t be like this forever, but I know it’s very tough.

  9. I know exactly what you mean. When your baby gets older, you’ll be able to get out more. You’ll meet other parents and such. It does get better. *hugs*

  10. I know exactly what you mean. When your baby gets older, you’ll be able to get out more. You’ll meet other parents and such. It does get better. *hugs*

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